One is greyish the other pinkish ...

Twice Ive gone in to inspect or remove the eggs but she goes nuts , sits tight on the eggs and lunges at my hand . Does she know better than me and should I leave her be or do I have to bite the bullet and get the eggs out ?
I haven't been doing many nest inspections after last years disastrous breeding season , Ive been leaving well enough alone this year so I can only guess that the eggs should have hatched by now .
Any ideas ?