
I'm not new to birds, after having many birds over many years, though never bred any. Budgies and Peach Face. But I'm so over the noise, and my new little Finches are just fantastic.
Here's my situation: I now have a flight cage with 2 fem Zebs (I think they're both fem) and 1 male and 1 fem Mannikins. 5 days ago, Fem Zem lays 2 eggs in seed dish; I buy a couple of woven nest box thingies to which I add those two eggs. A day or two later there's another 3 eggs. Zebs have been sitting on the eggs, and sleeping in there. All seems lovely at the moment.
Now, today, the Mannikins seem to have hijacked the nest.

Firstly, I think all this chasing around is territorial. So should I be concerned at all? Should I worry that the Zebs will get 'tired' from being chased around all day? (they're having quiet periods, so this shouldn't be a problem) The Zeb that's been laying, is trying to get into the nest and is being chased out by the Mannis.....
Secondly, I don't suppose it matters who raises the chicks? Am I right?
Is there any aggressive behaviour I should look out for? Please don't tell me I have to seperate them....
Have I made a mistake by putting the two pairs in together? Embarrasingly, I didn't actually think they would breed.

Your help on this is appreciated.
Thanks in advance
Kat